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wife cheating again what should i do ???

i caught my wife cheating with this indian guy who lives in the state he is a foreign student she met on myspace they exchanged love letters and stuff anyways we had a big fight about it the first time i hacked her email today and i found an email from her mother with his pics on it its like that he knows her mom and stuff i am thinking of packing my stuff and living and stop waisting my time and money on here i feel like she is still talking to him behind my back lease help what should i do ?

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1. Dump her asap
2. I would have dumped her the first time around.
3. Leave her, nobody deserves to be treated like that.
4. Cheating once.....with counseling you may forgive her. Cheating twice....you'd be a fool to try again.
5. If it happend before it will happen again sadly it's over you can;t change someone like that. Sorry man.
6. talk to her about it first. ask her what her plans are. just be open and honest.
7. Leave and don't look back.
8. Dump her..NOW!!!
9. I would leave Once a cheater always a Cheater. That's messed up. I would never even Consider doing that to my Husband. And If he ever did that to me He would be out the Door. I am sorry she did that to you.
10. Dude leave her ass as soon as possible! You don't need to waste your time on this piece of crap, she has no respect for you and her mother obviously doesnt either.
11. Get out now! Obviously getting caught once wasn't enough. I mean my god she even has her mom helping her.
12. Ask her straight out if he should leave you. Let her know that you are suspicious of her cheating again and would like to know the truth. If she admits to it then talk it out with her and decide what to do. If she lies - then leave. Get all your stuff and walk out the door - it's a lost cause.
13. I'd leave. Even if she isn't having an affair she's still lying to you.
14. You answered your own question. If this has happened more than once then you should see the routine. Do you want to continue to play the fool, waste your money yet alone time? If you do stay for the ride if not GET THE HELL OUTTA THERE. Also if this is your wife you should have left along time ago obviously her vows to you mean nothing.
15. throw her stuff out in the yard and set it on fire,,, have a cold beer and watch it burn
16. Get out while you can but make sure you get the lions share of the settlement.
17. First time she cheats on you, its her fault. Second time, its yours. Moral of the story, you shouldnt have been around for it to happpen again.
18. i would leave dont even waste your time as the old saying says(THERS MORE THAN 1 FISH IN THE SEA)
19. keep track of her cheating - then divorce her - if she is cheating - you'll be treated well in the divorce court! may want to hire a dective too.
20. You shouldn't have hacked her email because that was dishonest, so now how would you be able to confront her? But if it was me, it would eat away at me until I would bust, so I don't know how you can't ask her about it. But you can't just leave. You have to talk to her about it. You may be imagining it, but if she is again cheating on you, if you want to save your marriage, see a counselor. If not, leave.
21. First of all--periods; they come at the end of sentences. People really seem to like them. Second, did you say, 'again'? Again, as in she's done this before? And you're asking what to do? How about taking the sign off your ass that says, "kick me'. That would be good for starters. Divorce is ugly, but at this point, you should view it as inevitable.
22. Why pack yours...Throw her stuff out and take a restraining order out to keep her away from you.....Once a cheater always a cheater.....You would know if she ever truly changed...And her Mother knows about it.....Geez-------
23. Without getting mad, communicate with your wife. You should not go snooping around, you found something you did not like. How is she cheating on you if its just a bunch of stuff on line.. maybe her mom is seeing this guy instead. You need to disuss this with your wife without getting so pissed off. Then take it from there. Maybe your wife needs help.
24. umm..!!! HELLO!! why are you still with her!! and its obvious that her mom knows if she sent her emails with pics of him
25. leave gl
26. Talk with her first and see what she really wants...if it's him then part ways.Remember to forgive her though,don't hold that grudge.
27. First of all cheating is wrong no matter what the reason is. Secondly you gave her a second chance by being with her. She ruined her chance by your finding emails. If she doesn't learn from her mistake once chances are she might not ever. Leaving is the best thing to do in this case. This will ensure that she will learn her lesson and maybe change her ways. If she really loves you she'd agree to change and not take you for granted. If not, then just move ahead because once you lose trust it is a hard task to get it back. Good luck though!
28. once a cheater always a cheater.. It's time to say your goodbye's, and move on. She'll never change honey!!!
29. if she is cheating on you twice, it wont stop her from cheating on you again. if you are miserable in your relationship with her and you can't seem to trust her then i think its better if you leave. in a marriage, you pledged your loyalty and to not love no other. dont waste your time being hurt and finding new things about her wife cheating on you. be brave and tell her how you feel and this time walk out of the house. you can find someone better. hey, instead of wasting your money on her why won't you spend it for a vacation for you to find yourself and maybe meet someone new. maybe when you are gone, your wife will realize something...you know the saying "you don't know what you've got until its gone." GOoD LuCk!
30. Unfortunately Francois, there is no regeneration for a repeat offender! You either have to grin and bear it, join the festivities by proposing some three-ways, or just let the girl go! There is no reason why you should suffer in any way with her awful behavior. Now her mom is in on it too and they are conniving against you?! That's totally unacceptable! Dump the biatch, man! She doesn't deserve you!
31. this time let her know your not messin around....lol
32. Do you have children? If not, then pack up your belongings, and leave without so much as a good-bye. And don't look back. If you own property of any significance, then file for divorce before she does. If you own a house, do NOT leave the house, but, rather file for divorce, and fight to remain in the house, with her leaving. The property can be divided later. If you have children, then you need to see an attorney so that you can divorce her, and still have atleat 50% of their time, with no child support changing hands.
33. Ask her about it. if your marriage is worth it maybe you can go to counseling to work it out. Remember, when a spouse cheats it isnt your fault ,there is something they are missing. if you cant work it out pack your stuff and leave.
34. This is a question that doesn't even deserve an ansewer; however since you felt compelled to ask, here goes. I don't know a man worth his NADS that has to question whether or not to leave a cheating, skanky slut. What has she done for you lately. Heartache you can get anywhere; do you know the value of a man these days? It is not until you stop asking dumb question and begin answering the tough ones that you will ever be happy. What is it about this woman that makes you happy enough to swallow your own balls to be with her. Seriously, I'm not a counselor or anything, but straighten your back up, man up, and watch the skank start to treat you like a man. Leave and never come back.
35. Leave her. You deserve better than that.
36. what do you want to do? keep the tramp or dump her, she doesnt sound worth the effort esp if she is still doing it,, get your buddies, rent a uhaul, then when she goes to work take all the stuff, and move, tell judge in divorce you sold stuff to pay off credit cards,
37. Oh my god...what does it take for people to leave their cheating spouses?! Honestly.??!!. What??. .I mean you have the solid proof that she's cheating on you, and for the 2nd time!! Are you serious? .What in the hell made you stay for another round of cheating?. Let me guess she gave you one of these classic lines.........: "It was a mistake, it will never happen again!" "I thought we were through." "I thought you were cheating on me, so I did it to you." "I was confused." "I was vulnerable." "We were on a break." "I was mad at you." "I love you, and it was just a huge mistake." "I thought you loved me...were supposed to get through this." "If you loved me, you would forgive me." "It only happened one time." *Whatever BS line she gave you, was just that....BS.* ~You know damn well what you need to do, quit sticking around and making yourself look like an idiot PLEASE!~ .LEAVE HER A** she has no respect for you and no regards for your feelings or your marriage. .....you know what you need to do, so quit playing ring around the rosie with her, and do it. It's called a divorce. .And if you aren't willing to do what needs to be done, and you feel that "hurt" about it, then don't complain anymore to us. .Get a divorce and be done with the cheater. .You can divorce her on the grounds of adultery and emotional stress etc. DO IT.
38. She's obviously not ready for a serious relationship and isn't mature enough to deal with monogamy. You can't win this fight, cut your losses.
39. Take the money and leave.
40. If she loved you should would not have cheated on you. Why would you want to stay with someone who cheated on you the first time? You should leave her and find someone who will not cheat on you and treat you right.