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I’m 29 yrs old. I’m a mom of two kids aged 5 and 4mnths.My life was going very happy as I’m blessed with and ?

married to a very good responsible husband. But unfortunately two month before my hubby aged 36yrs fell into adultery with my maternal uncle’s wife who’s is aged 32yrs.We are settled in UAE, My maternal uncle (aged 40) and wife stay just 3kms away from our house and my maternal uncle stays with his elder brothers family (This family and my relation with maternal uncles are just the same as I love my parents. Maternal uncle’s brother is aged 58 and his wife aged 49.)We often visited there and my family did had a good relation with them, truly speaking very much attached from the past 9yrs.whtever happiness we had we shared with their family. Now it’s the 6th yr of our married life. And my maternal uncles 9th yr.My maternal uncle’s wife and my hubby are brought up in northern India and so their culture, language, attitude, views are almost the same and my self and my maternal uncles was brought up very conservatively but we have good loving spouses and had very good family life. But suddenly from the past two months my hubby and my uncles wife was having an affair which started by sending emails. like quotes, music lyrics and they started talking on phone and it improved to meeting each other outside on the car parking and its lead to physical touch, but my hubby said he /herself didn’t had an intercourse as they didn’t indented to go that extend or even thought of .My hubby said he just don’t know how they fall for each other and how they did all these. I caught this once he was emailing to someone and hiding from and he said to me everything and asked me to forgive and he said he loves me a lot and now realizes his mistake. At the same time I talked with my uncle’s wife and she too said that she didn’t really indented to hurt me and asked me to forgive and they will not repeat. Now I’m really confused and my spouse relationship make me worried, but I love him a lot as he is very good husband by all means and very responsible parent and he is very good in all like work, willingness to help and same is with my uncles wife.Wht should I do now. I can forgive my hubby, how should I regain the trust and how should I go again happily with my marriage. Should I keep a distance with my uncle’s family? Pls advice.

Public Comments

1. You have two young children with a man, who before this indiscretion, was the perfect father and husband in your eyes. Now he has deceived your relationship by having relations with your uncle's wife. The harmony of this close-knit family has been disturbed by their selfish actions. Now you are trying to decide whether or not you should stay away from the other members of the extended family. You can forgive your husband, but are not sure whether or not to forgive your uncle's wife. They are both equally guilty in their actions. They both betrayed you. They both disrupted the family. My suggestion would be to hold your head up high. Speak with both of them. Tell them both that you can forgive, but are not willing to forget. Make sure that they understand that you will not tolerate any further betrayal. Tell the uncle's wife that you will be keeping your eye on her. Let her know that you are going to work on your marriage, and that she is to keep her distance. Do not exclude yourself from the rest of the family. They did nothing wrong. If you sense that they are still in contact, go to the family and tell them what happened. Best wishes